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@polclarissou the pressure is the quiet pressure to be nice to someone who might benefit you in future, rather than one of contractual obligation or chafing. the friendlier you are, the better the chance of you getting the next deal.
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@polclarissou i also find this frustrating, but the peace i have found is to try to build up alternative spaces, even within compromise, rather than rage against those that are twisting stuff to their own ends. but maybe that's just cowardice.