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@spacetreasured remember once talking about wanting to not be precious about ideas, and, reaching for the phrase "kill your darlings" said "it's important to kill the baby in it's crib"
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@spacetreasured anyway, all of which is to say: yes, i agree, kill the baby in it's crib
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@spacetreasured i think there's something about... even if you know it's the wrong attitude to have, being public and open about the fact that you have the wrong attitude & you're trying to have a different one can be more constructive than swallowing the difference.
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@spacetreasured like, it's a good sign for me if someone says "hm, sorry, i'm taking a bit of a while to consider that idea because i'm feeling defensive of my baby [alternative]". much better than being the same amount of defensive but denying it.