@infovore@jonty i'm lucky to be on the small community that runyourown.social/ is about. but the thing about things that don't scale is that they exclude most people.
@infovore@jonty although, actually, in practice, this is WhatsApp group chats, locked alts & Discord servers. which is common these days! but you have to lock this stuff away, rather than rely on privacy through obscurity like the 2000s.