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gender deviance is punished more harshly for people read as men rather than women. which is why trans women get hate and trans men get ignored.
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right now, I present ambiguously, which I like, but which also presents danger. I'd like to be able to pass better in certain situations because it feels safer.
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I think the TERF response to this is something like "that's correct - men are genetically wired to be Bad". I don't accept this.