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@nielsen_holly possibly a useful way to think about this is - the question "am I taking up too much space" is less helpful than "is there anyone here who should be given more space".Permalink Look on archive.org
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@nielsen_holly it's not about shrinking yourself down, but about giving people more space. and if there's no-one like that - take it for yourself, believe them when they say they're interested.Look on archive.org
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@nielsen_holly (and sometimes people don't want to take up the space! the right balance is not always an equal proportion of time! sometimes people are comfier listening, or just plain more interested in learning new things than talking about stuff they already know about!)Permalink Look on archive.org